Anal Sex Problems

[Rickman24]

I am not sure how to say it exactly, but I cannot enjoy anal sex at all. My boyfriend love it(of course), but I just can't seem to get into it. Not to mention it is a little painfull at times, and we always use lube and he always uses his fingers to loosen it up so he can get in, and that feels pretty good, but once he gets in, its like i loose sensitivity. I cannot cum, even if i rub my clit, I have tried many times. I was wondering if any one else has had a similar problem, and if so what did you do. I appreciate any help. Thank You.

[Surfer Girl]

I have cum while having anal sex, but not often. I also don't have anal very often. You could try having a finger or two or three in your pussy while having anal. Or also a vibe in your pussy and then rubbing your clit as well.

I would suggest talking to your boyfriend about it too. Let him know that you don't enjoy it. If it's mostly b/c of the pain, then you should definitely let him know. Maybe only have anal as a "treat" for him as you don't see to like it at all.

I can't cum in the missionary position, but it still feels good. So, I still do it....of course.

I'll come back and post more thoughts, but I am being rushed at the moment. Hope this helps!

[Rickman24]

Thank you surfer girl I appreciate your advice, and I will talk to him, and try the fingers and dildo

[cookinNlookin]

hey there sweetie,
Understand your concerns....I have done anal and still do on occassions..A few things that I remember when we first tried and up to today. Is nice and easy, slow at first. It will take time for you to get used to your man and for it to feel better and better. The key is Relaxing....if while stimulating is not working and relaxing is not working, I would do what surfer girl mentioned and talk with BF and explain to him that it is uncomfortable...maybe sugest fingers are fine but his cock is not. If he is well endowed or large it will be painful. Anal is just not something you jump into, it takes time, and patience. I hope this helps sweetie...Cookin

[Jade921]

I really enjoy anal sex but I just can't cum without fingering my pussy

[bootyfulazn]

i enjoy anal when i get it lol. it jus has a diff feeling and gets me soo much more into the sex. ive came once from anal. i like it hard though thats the only way i come even vaginally

[ChrisLeigh77429]

I love anal but its usually with some one else other than my husband - he is really big and its very painful when we do it together. most of the guys we find for me are much smaller than him and we will do DP,having the other guy in my ass while he fucks my pussy - i usually always get off during anal sex, but thats because i have some thing in my vaj - jay - jay

[stormjet]

hey,i want my wife to try anal??any tips on making her want 2 do it???